Desires Or Scary Wishful Thinking?

by BizMum

Shockingly, your desires or the person you wish for suddenly appears in your life. Panic sets in. What you thought were such fantastic and dreamy desires now give you the willies. Or were you just having sheer playful dreams and they have become scary wishful thinking when that dream appeared in front of you?

When Your Ginnie Delivers

Your Ginnie In The Lamp

Your wish is your command. You have been wishing and dreamily day dreaming much of the time about something or someone. Then you start talking to one or more persons without apparent warning during a meeting or party and you realize this is out of this world wierd! Perhaps, it was that multi-million dollar contract you’ve been dreaming about. Then it might have been that route to becoming an elitist business person. Or even that dreamy handsome gentleman (ok, that goddess for the guys).

It seems your dreams are now being offered to you. But you hold your breath, you jold your horses, your mind starts to doubt and that incomprehensible fear drives you almost crazy. Suddenly your desire has become a frightening situation. You cannot bring yourself to accept it. The situation had become a scary wishful thinking. And, sadly, you let it slip by. In fact you become so disillusioned with yourself, you tell your ginnie to stop this reality. It was meant only to be a “what if” dream. Your ginny says “Your wish is my command.”

I have certainly experienced this sad state of affairs numerous times in my life. I was so afraid that people who used to belittle me in the past would do so again and again. And the result? I lived in abject mediocrity for so many years. I hated myself. Then that became a habit of regrets. The regrets of never making endeavours work became a terrible habit of failure. Yes, folks, that ginnie is all powerful. But, what if you had decided to take it all on as delivered?

Going For Desires

Aha! Thank you ginnie, thank you! So what if I had decided to take on any one of those past dreams? Yes, I can see that my life would not be the same as it is today. In fact, I can see now that these series of desires appearing for me to take advantage of are really the goals I had set for myself to achieve that super burning desire that I have. That dream, though may it be far away (I don’t even feel it far away at all), appears like it is here with me right now. It has been for a while now.

I can taste the deliveries that ginnie has served, still hot and deliciously fresh from the heavenly kitchen. In fact, learning to choose the yesses, I get far more yesses tha I get to taste the unsavoury. I’m still choosing my buffet from many choices but I choose them better from experience, the good and the bad. Now, there is no such thing as ‘bad’ as it is really a guide or contrast to guide you into the better way or ideal.

So, Mr. Ginnie, keep delivering my dreams. I accept them. Those of you who have driven your ginnie away time and again, please take a good look at your life. Is it the way you would like it to be? If not, then start to accept your true dreams.