Did you realise that you are lamenting when you keep saying or wishing “you want to be” something or someone? Wishing for something is only the second part of the process to manifest the desired result. Using the law of attraction to deliberately change or manifest things around you is a very simple idea with a very set sequence of events. It is a universal flow of where the energy you direct will go.
- It begins when your experience is not acceptable because you acknowledge it is not to your liking.
- Second, you decide on what you want the new experience to be and you wish it.
- Third, you create the desire for what you want to be experienced with any means possible as you allow it to come into your experience.
Stop Lamenting
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Continuously wishing for something often refers to the reason why you’re still wishing for something. It’s because you still do not have it. So, unknowingly, you keep wishing and wishing and wishing until you really become frustrated at its negative effect. I’ll say that again, you get the negative effect and wonder why the thing you wish for attracts the opposite or the negative effect. You might be wishing for more money but got more bills to pay. I sincerely hope you understand that what you are doing is lamenting that you do not have it. And therefore the universe is giving you exactly what you asked for!
Well meaning people in the process of learning to apply the law of attraction try to teach their friends and family what they have learnt…thus far. It’s far better to realise the fundamental results to show you’ve succeeded in your manifestation should you even try to demonstrate its effectiveness. But in this case it’s not. It’s only wise to perfect your artistic ability before you try to teach someone else. It’s no different here. Complete your masterpiece before showing it.
What You Don’t Want
That’s sometimes easier said than done. Ask miserable people to get out of their doldrums but they are usually already so fearful or down trodden they cannot recognise their malaise. Watch Gordon Ramsey deal with broken down restaurant owners and you will understand why he often rudely gives them a swift ‘kick in the pants’ just to wake them up from their hypnotic state of failure.
Identify what you don’t want in order for you to get out of it and get what you really want in its place. You’re not going anywhere else if you do not identify that miserable lot you are in. For example, people who have spent most of their lives in subservience often have very low opinions of themselves. It requires that thought to want to change before things will begin to change.
What You Want
The next step is to find what you want and not remain there! You want immediate progress once you have identified what you do not want. It is now important to say what you want. You must entrench that thought in your mind and then be very proactive to describe the things or life experience that you want.
This is the belief of achieving it that you must entrench in your mind. But remember, you are only still in that asking stage. You must go into the next allowing stage. It is the time when you will be working towards its manifestation.
Allowing Your Wishes To Manifest
Now, many people skip this step altogether because they do not realise how important and huge this step is. But what is allowing? Well, really, it is very simply, knowing that you can and will do anything to let your dreams or your wishes come true. That means the universal energies will give you the opportunities for you to manifest this thing whether through your own hands or some other fruitful action you must take. Remember, it is the energy that manifests the opportunity for you and in this physical experience you will need to accept it into your life.
In the allowing state of mind, you are actually responding by acceptance to the vibrations created from your wanting. If you accept and allow what you didn’t want and keep doing so, that’s what you will still be experiencing. If you allow what you have decided to experience that’s what will come into your new existence.
Manifesting
There’s a genie in your bottle. You control its use. Just like some older cultures that understand manifestation, like in India, they may tell you that it’s your mind that is the beautiful wish fulfilling jewel. Your mind isn’t always wishing. It “fulfils” that wish. The Ancient Chinese often say the educated mind is a blessing but the ability to accomplish with talent is a gift.
Like the wealthiest and the most accomplished of people, they know what they need to do to manifest their desires. They do not generally teach in such terms and colourful language but they do become the masters of their trade. Apprentices count themselves very lucky. As they follow, they create as their masters. Often, the student will surpass the master because he or she adds to the power of the energy already entrusted as the student.
