Is there such a thing as a positive need? I know, it sounds like an oxymoronic statement. A need often connotes a lack of some kind. Being positive is just the opposite, as the vibration connotes things will work out. But, my confusion soon turned to clarity with this real life concept. I can categorically say that this becomes THE driving force to your greatest achievements.
Negative Motivator
Dream Home
You’ve probably been ingrained with the thinking that all needs should be transformed into a want instead, to get the most positive result. But, how does that really happen? I’ve been introduced to a number of variations of using the power of the negative to drive your needs into the positive.
You see, when you are faced with a truly negative situation totally at odds with what you had been wanting or not expecting, you can feel like your world is falling apart. You can’t help but feel extremely bad and negative. This can happen when someone tells you you’re a total failure and was adviced to stay away from someone whom you are in love with?
A story told by Mr. Bill Bartmann told of the time when a similar situation happened which became a massive negative motivator for him. He was totally sick of feeling the way he did and got his high school diploma and on to building massive wealth. It took many years, but he was driven to get what he truly wanted.
Now, during this turning period he had huge emotions. First, a negative, then he turned it into the direction he wanted which is now massively positive. Ever wondered why he gets to be so successful?
A negative motivator is really an event or someone telling you what you don’t want at all and this gives you the opportunity really go the opposite direction and focus on what you really want.
Develop A Driving Need
You sit in your car and pass by a certain neighbourhood and you see a certain house that catches your fancy. But this is in a high end neighbourhood and the houses are worth over a million dollars. So you stop by every day and sit in your car looking at it. After a week or two of wishing you are in that house, you start to feel that disgust and burning need of wanting it so badly, you have become angry.
This is like a need a child has and throws a tantrum because he wants that fancy new toy come what may. Yes, that need for that dream house develops. You’re really disgusted with yourself. You become jealous of those ‘lucky’ people in there. You berate and blame yourself for not being able to have it. And you think,”Man, if only, only, only I knew how to get filty rich…”
This is enormous emotional energy. Your feelings of negativity is extreme. But, do you realize you can turn that into a positive driving need? Realize that you have become in such need you MUST have it? Now, when you use this driving need to get that dream house, what do you think you will want to do?
Perhaps you’ll seek out some wealthy people to mentor you. Maybe you find a great business to get into like a great MLM company with excellent compensation plans, good leadership and system already in place. Whatever it is, this sudden positiveness developed from that initial desire while sitting in your car. You see, you have been driven into feeling needy and then that drove you to do something serious about it.
