“Don’t worry, be happy”. That is a great song by Bob Marley. Just feel happy and things will start to fall into place. If you can’t find something you can really call your burning desire or calling, don’t worry there is one thing you can do immediately to find it. I know, it seems like an oxymoronic way to explain why anyone can’t get lined up with something that is the focal point for success. So, how can anyone feel happiness when the feeling of success is absent? Anyone can. Bear with me while I explain what happened.
Overcome Doubt To Feel Better
Life may have been so good to you that there really isn’t anything else that you want to develop a burning desire for. You really don’t need any more happiness because you doubt you can be happier. Perhaps life has been a cruel master according to you. Happiness does not exist. There is nothing that you want to get into because everything you tried has failed. Nothing works. You can only feel sadness. Happiness is really so far, far away.
That is doubt about what you can have, be or do. When doubt reigns in your mind, happiness cannot exist. What you need to do is to start to remove doubt. You begin by doing things to make you feel better. Refer to the emotional guidance scale here. If you feel bad or angry you will know straight away. But it further guides you to how you actually feel much more closely. Use this scale to monitor how you feel once or more a day. As you can see, the emotion of contentment is really the borderline of starting to feel better. So, you want to be as high up on this scale as possible. The higher you go, the more empowered you are about achieving your dreams and have a burning desire for them.
The Feeling Of What You Want
The strange thing is that everyone have things that they want, some more than others. The sad thing is that so very few are full of enthusiasm about their thoughts of desires. Most people bury their thoughts and desires because of doubt. They have been beaten down and downtrodden much of their lives and are actually afraid to come up and smell the abundant air. Here are some more links for you to check out to help you feel better and put you on a higher emotional plane here.
Successful people do not wait for things to happen. They make things happen. They develop with effort to empower themselves. That takes time and practice. They have decided not to sit on their behinds and to get up and go get their dreams done. Their daily focus is to achieve the feeling of happiness by doing the things they love.
Those who languish are there because they think that everything in their lives are a result of being unworthy or some such emotion. But really, it’s because they think that they can’t achieve success. They are afraid to dream their big dreams. They suffer from excusitis. They believe that they can’t have a burning desire because it might be a sin. Why do they live in abject sorrow? It’s because they are too afraid to take that step into a bigger world. They blame everything and everyone for all the nasty stuff that befalls them and they seem to enjoy it. Guys, you sit on your fat behinds and feel sorry for yourselves.
Just Feel Happy To Find Your Dreams
You need only get up and start to do the things that make you feel that little better each day, you will begin to have those magnificent dreams and the powerful burning desire for them. Success is only an instant decision away. For some people, it takes a tremendous force majeur to displace them from their perch. For such things to happen it is because they have waited for so long for one reason or another. Sometimes they have even lost their minds, health or wealth in a major way. For these people, finding the courage to get back into the human race can be the toughest thing in the world.
But look around you. Follow the trials and successes of billionaires and multi-millionaires. They have all been through some of the worst disasters before they are at the pinnacle they are on right now. The greater the disaster that caused you to sink so deeply, the faster and more powerful your returning success. To begin simply allow yourself to smile.
Smile and then say you’ve had enough and you are sick of this lot. In that one instant, your mind will begin to want to get you out of your deep dark hole. You’ll begin to want to feel happy. You’re tired of feeling so sick all the time. You’ll eventually create many scenarios for more emotional happiness by dreaming and wondering if you can achieve these things. Doubt begins to lift like dark clouds moving away. Joy comes and you will start to feel empowered. Then one day you will start to find that happy occasion when you have that sudden burning desire because you believe in your dream and begin to do the right things to achieve it.