Sometimes you think you are in charge but something happens that puts you on unsure footing. Something so familiar can dominate your psyche yet you’re the boss of your own business. If you’ve ever walked a dominant dog, the very first time walking the dog is really just a joke as you will find yourself being walked instead. It does not matter even if the dog taking you for a walk is just a little York Terrier. It stops when it wants to, it runs when it decides and then simply lies down so that you have to carry it all the way home. Then you try to control that powerful Husky dragging and running some poor guy all over the neighbourhood. It gets worse in the snow as you might experience what a sled does.
If you’re wondering about doggy training, it really is about you or the lack of your own personal discipline. Your feelings give you away and the dog is simply amplifying it.
Man Or Woman’s Best Friend
Dogs are really your best friend as they tell you your true feelings.
Dogs are wonderfully perceptive creatures. I love them for their ability to actually act according to what your feelings are. Your personality is amplified and the way the dog behaves with you gives you away. So, be careful what you are thinking about or what your mind is doing because it’s like the universe is responding immediately. If you are watching your thoughts habitually, you will find that with time and space there is often some time before anything you are thought projecting strongly become manifest.
However, with a dog, your latent feelings, meaning the feelings you carry at the time becomes manifest immediately. Next time you take a dog out for a walk pay a little attention to its behaviour or reaction with you. That’s not to say that the dog is embarrassing you. Far from it. In fact, the saying that a dog is a man or woman’s best friend is absolutely true. The reason why goes further than one would give the relationship credit for.
The Dog Demonstrates Our True Feelings
You see, that sensitivity to a human’s vibes is so wonderful in that this friend is able to sense your feelings and give you exactly what you are vibrating or the feelings you are sending out. Think about that for a moment about this wonderful universe we live in. Here is a creature that will play with us when we need it. The dog will give us love and company when we are ill or feeling sad. It will simply the opposite by being rather fearful with aggression derived from that fear because that is happening in our lives.
These indicating reactions are activated by what we are activating in our lives. And do you also recognise that the dog behaves differently to different people? To some people it is a cute little obedient puppy and yet to someone else it’s a predator and will want to take a piece of flesh out of his or her rear.
Now, it may not be because we are behaving or creating these things in our lives all the time but it may be so that in the presence of the dog, the most basic of emotions surfaces. And this is not a bad thing as many people misunderstand the friendly or nasty pooch. You see, the friendly pooch may just refuse to interact with you if you’re feeling like a prude. The nasty biter will simply do his level best to be rid of you.
Dealing With A Dominant Dog
Of course you will want the dog to stop walking you. But do you realise that this dominance being demonstrated is simply an opportunity for you to step up your game in this life to become a more emotionally powerful person. Look into your life and do you find yourself backing off from a confrontation of a co-worker or perhaps an employee just to keep the peace? But let’s have a reality check here. Are you simply afraid of what this person might think? Of course this person may feel insulted and put down from a talking to. But as a right of position and for the best good of the organisation, you must do what is proper. And that may be causing your gut to twist itself into knots because you are not being who you thought you were.
So, in effect, you don’t want to really beat up on poor old pooch because he was showing you your shortcomings, you want to show this pooch you can be the boss and do it with powerful stability. You’re not showing anger, aggression or depression. In fact, you can control the situation and improve the employee’s performance while helping this person feel better about himself. And the upshot of it all is that you will feel many times better than that person ever will.
So, one day, surprise the Husky with that “I have dominance so, shall we have a good time” control. I can tell you it is pure pleasure to let the friend beside you tell you that you are the boss and he loves you for it. Remember, your best friend doesn’t care what you look like or what people think of you. It’s who and what you think you are is all that matters. What you feel and the emotions you carry are what matters to anyone’s best friend, regardless of dominance.
