As you observe the intoxicating self confidence oozing from your most favourite successful person of all time you notice that success and social confidence seem to go hand in hand. Everybody appears to love a winner. And then you’ll also notice deadbeats grumbling and despising that same person. But, through all that negativity, your heroic figure is a pillar of self confidence.
Think about it for a moment you’ll realize the most successful people are adventurous and above all else exude an indomitable self confidence. But, were they always so super confident before success came knocking? They will all tell you that success has to be developed. Ask them further and they will all tell you that at some point in their lives, they had that powerful feeling or calling that this is what they wish to do and they are so confident of success, they went for it. Never looking back and never faltering became their way of life. They were confident and therefore achieved success.
The Mind And Self Confidence
Earl Nightingale said it perfectly when he said what you thought of yourself is the greatest secret ever kept.
The unbelieving mind is constantly imposing limitations on itself. It is that battle of the emotions which first as you get to build some confidence and then doubt or guilt creeps in and you have all to do again. It beats you up. Well, actually, your self confidence gets beaten down and for many people, that is what keeps them stuck in that apparently never ending cycle of despair of failure. Why is success such an elusive goal?
Our minds’ eyes see only fog that makes our goals ultimately difficult to see. With all the tools of inspirational speeches, audios and books, we can intellectually see what makes us happy. But we come up against a massive block because we cannot believe in reaching that ultimate destiny. We lack the confidence to make those dreams into real world plans. We find it impossible to direct all our energies and focus on that direction of this lifelong self discovery.
Self Confidence Is Unstoppable
Ultimate self confidence is often cited as the single most important aspect of one’s personality when determining unstoppable success. The logic here is that while qualifications and determination are important factors, these would not actually get a hard working individual the success they could ultimately enjoy if they did not exercise their self worth. Self perception is toward achieving success both socially and professionally.
Once you understand the power you can have at your fingertips with self confidence, you are unstoppable. You can then appreciate what your real life hero must be. This is what he or she lives every day. It’s that untiring emotion of being able to pull through any desire you want. That’s a part of the direction you have set out for your ultimate destination, of becoming who you are meant to be. You feel worthy all the time. Doubt never fogs your mind.
The reality is the things that make you a success are your own worthwhile goals achieved over time. Self confidence and worthiness of your goal are the true secret to living the life you want. It’s that simple.