Sitting in a dark box in your mind you feel isolated. But you’re not alone. In fact, you’re never alone. Loneliness is only a state of mind. Anyone can be isolated or filled with the joy of friends. It’s all in what your mind percieves to be.
Sad Little Boy By Choice
Lonely Bird
“I’m so alone…” he sobs as a tirade of sorrow poured from his lips. I show him a little bird sitting by himself. “Is he alone?” I asked. “Not really. His friends are over there if he wants to join them.” “But you look like that you’re that little bird…where are your friends?” “They don’t want me to play with them my game.” “Well, first, you play their game and after they know you, introduce your game.” He took off like a shot and he ran right into their tag game like they have been playing all along.
In life, we have often become that sad little boy by choice every day. We play a game of choice and we choose to sulk more often than we want to engage with others. It’s amazing how by simply knowing others and letting them know you, your own way of doing things become acceptable.
The feeling of isolation is really our own making. It’s what our minds have created and the universe provides. It happens in nature everywhere. Even little birds do it. Children by and large often require only a tiny piece of understanding and a little urge and they will see the light of day. Kids have yet to develop that massive set of negative neurons and habits that adult minds often have. Kids take far less to change their habits.
Everyone Can Be A Friend
Misery loves company. This miserable feeling wants to be shared. Therefore, you love to have someone be a friend for you to pour it out on. But have you just realized that you really hated being alone. Put it another way, you love to have comapny. Such a paradox. You want to be left alone to sulk but everyone can become a friend to a lonely person.
A funny thing about energy. It permeates through everything. This means it is everywhere. Try as you might to isolate yourself, thoughts will reach you just as your thoughts will reach everywhere. You cannot be lonely. Energy is everywhere. It’s your choice how and what you intend to be resonating with. What’s your mindset? What’s your choice?
So, daily, make it your choice to reach out and be amongst the great and wonderful vibes that is the universe. Choose to mix and mingle with people who are vibrationally a match to you. You will be given many occassions to befriend such beautiful people you know will become your friends.
