There is nothing that’s so sweetly desirable than the pleasures of my own making. That’s why it’s a wonderful practice to take the time and smell the roses. Apply this edict to everything you do. Life becomes a pleasure once you let go of all that bothers. Allow everything else to offer their beautiful pleasure. Pleasure can come from anywhere and any form of stimuli including where you sit. That’s because it’s what you perceive all things to be that makes it wonderful or devastating. Build into your life that creative habit of welcoming every experience in your life as a pleasurable creative journey. Live in the expectation of a pleasurable life.
My pleasures, my own making of fun.
The Pleasure Habit
When you walk with a friend do you hold her hand? And guys, there is no shame in looking at flowers and admiring their prettiness. Enjoy the leaves that a tree has grown for all its crowning glory. The fur trees grow tall through the forest for the world to see it’s there. The great old oak stands proud because it must. Admire them and give accolades to them. Appreciate the people in your life and feel the pleasure it gives them. Tell a child she is pretty. Bring blessings to babies and you’ll observe them smiling back at you. Tell strangers they look great and watch them beam their pleasure.
If you want to create pleasure in your life, there are things you must do. Form that pleasure seeking or creating habit. It is an achievement of the greatest measure of your lifestyle when you create fun and happiness out of every single episode that comes up.
Be very aware that the greater the appearance of something you don’t want, the better the result of what you want to happen. There is so much power in the emotions of the pleasure to come when that is what you are determined to be focused on because you believe that is the joy you desire. So a child seems to be up in arms and throwing the tantrum of his life. Is that anger thrown at you or is there actually something simple so that a worse issue can be averted for the better.
So what when something that appears to derail your life comes to pay you that unwanted visit? With practice, you can and will avert these things that others or life throws at you. You see, as you live, you throw out emotional wants and don’t wants, often without thinking about it. It’s that automatic mental reflex. You will cause the attraction of what you ask for and true enough, here it comes. But then that wonderful great habit of making a pleasure out of every unwanted event becomes a redirection of where you intend to be. The successful people will always declare that it was fun winning. It was doubly fun because they know it was of their own making.
Believe In The Pleasure Of Life
Learn to take the pleasure in the challenge to create a fun life. So you got a flat tire in the middle of a country highway. There was no cell phone signal and you couldn’t change it yourself because of an injury or disability. You know you are too far away from civilisation to walk the distance for help. Besides, you have seen several bears out and about down the road.
To many, it may be a desperate time. To the few who understands this situation, it is actually a time of a creative and fun challenge. It has happened to me and some friends who are very adventurous by nature. We all believed that something great and fun will happen. In fact, we felt it might be great fun to meet a handsome man or woman who is in a position to offer aid and also might be a fantastic opportunity for meeting a great friend.
Each of us in similar situations met different people but they were all very helpful in some way. A friend wound up with an overnight stay in a great country lodge. Another wound up on a business trip aboard his rescuer’s yacht. I met some really great party animals who were going to share some time in a mountain retreat. So you see, we wound up with what we had been vibrating that which would give us so much pleasure. And the trigger moment was when it appeared that things were going badly. Instead, it triggered us the habit to believe in the pleasure we would receive from our belief of our own making. If you want things in your life to be better, then you must change the thinking for the better of what life brings you.
