Associating With Friends

by BizMum

Associating with friends is a choice. Associating with friends who will be beneficial to you, your wealth building and your family requires careful and purposeful determination. In fact, I’m going to introduce the idea of being biased instead just being discerning in your choice of friends. Here, I’ll risk being at odds with people who declare that friendship is about the heart and not the head. I’ll trip you over and say that you use both and have different ‘levels’ of friendships.

Which Group Of Friends Do You Want To Associate With

Choose Your Friends Carefully And Associate With The Like Minded Ones

Benefits of the Right Friends

With the right association of the right friends for a particular purpose, one can be wealthier, have more fun, have greater personal growth, have a better family, and create a powerful business group. The most powerful groups of friendly associations practically make decisions about the direction of ruling the world, or even choosing the leaders. You become one of them because you are like them.

Yes, think about where you want to be with your choice of friends…not the beer swilling and broke every week type of friends I hope. There are friends that land you in hot soup and even some of the worst situations anyone can think of besides being on the wrong side of the law and even hurting your family and kids. If you’re determined to keep these guys, please stop reading and turn off the internet. I don’t want to know you.

You Are Your Best Friend

Consider this; you want to build a wealth building club or a group of friends like a mastermind. But, ask this question of yourself before you delve into your superlative quest. Look in the mirror and ask yourself, “Now, who would want to be friends with me?” Begin right here. You will find friends who are similar in vibrations to you. Their direction you desire will be much like you.

If you think and are extremely determined to be a billionaire for example, your vibes will be such that people who are bank presidents, prime ministers, other billionaires and captains of industry will cross your path. Now, the question is, will they want to have anything to do with you? Are your vibes and aura about you interest them in that wonderful product, YOU?

What will come before you will be what you vibrate or think of most f the time. Many people will think “Low cost”, Easy entry level”, “Free tutorial”, “Great profits”, “Proven success” or “Many supportive friends”. Well, believe it or not, most people who are into business of some kind will begin with a network marketing model. It is actually the most successful in creating wealth for those who actually work it. No one ever gets rich or even make a living by getting into the business and then keeping the doors closed because you’re away on holiday or hiding in the basement. So, in this case, you might want to get together with a bunch true network marketers who are actually working with each other for each other’s benefit. Even friends from different companies can actually be empowering each other. And yes, they becomes you mastermind for wealth, and very likely your friends for life.

Friends Who Resonate Work Together

Your vibes match therefore you like each others’ company. This is where it gets very difficult for many people to wrap their priorities around. Friends you think you like may not be right for the business you are into. Your vibes or behaviours may be suitable for the here and now, but what happens when you have that burning desire you didn’t have before? Suddenly you make the decision to get that Rolls Royce and Ferrari under the roof of a multi-million dollar mansion. And you begin your quest in earnest.

Your vibes and even your language change. You talk about wealth building businesses and not last night’s beer and the girl in the bar. You’re weird to this old bunch. You’ve changed. They don’t call you anymore unless you talk about blowing every single pay check on junk food and ball games. You can’t because you’re working on a new business to make that extra income.

Now, you realise the people you meet at the conventions and other networking meetings are more attuned to your way of thinking…men and women. You hit it off with a number of people and they start to invite you to more places to meet and eventually, a group is formed. Or maybe, they like you so much, they invite you instead. Hey, a ready-made group of up and coming power brokers and they are great friends to have to build wealth together.

Now, you have little time for those old friends. Time will tell, but those who refuse to change to a more productive way of life will remain there – broke all the time and constantly grumbling so much you cannot bear to be with such negativity ever again! They are no longer your friends.

Successful People Seek Beneficial Like Minded Friends

So, today, look in the mirror and identify who you are. You can tell by the friends you have around you. Who do you want to remain associated with? Are they the ones from your yesteryear and would see you in despair and help you stay there? You know the ones – those dream stealers. Please ignore them. They stay, you remain where you have been.

And then you look around and you actually see some people who are great finds but you have not allowed yourself to take the next higher step in your evolution to becoming successful. They may have held out their hands but you have yet to take a hold of them…warmly. Experiment and take that step upwards one step at a time to the top of the stairs and stop looking at the downstairs lest you fall back there. You already know the pain of falling down hard.

But, where are your friends? You already know where they all are. They are all out there somewhere. You must make it an active task because it is critical for your future successes.

You have all heard about the most successful people having 2 main characteristics. They are: Belonging to a support group or friends and creating one or more significant steady streams of income.