Love can hurt when it is lost and when I yearn for that indiscribable feeling, that inescapable emotion. Pangs of love can be experienced not because of a pain caused by its loss, but when you do have it all and it makes you uncertain.
We’ve all been there. Feeling uncertain is really because there is a lack of trust…of yourself. Not someone else. And so it is with love. I remember being uncertain of times when love is offered, but I refused it because of my doubt. I have mourned those times of what might have been. There are really too many reasons why this is so. But you and I have the power to make of it what we will. That is within the stage of our personal development.
The past few days have been one where my thoughts of loves past have come to mind. The universe saw to it these meloncholy moments were presented with like experience. The younger ones in my life, bless their hearts are a little confused about love. A brother appeared to be torn in several directions at once. They presented their experiences to me with familiar but long forgotten pain.
I lead seminars and help my clients with their emotions. However, these people are so close to home. I feel their agony, their angst. How can I offer them solace? During such times, I commune with nature. I offer my vibes to the universe. I ask for answers. I want relief to offer loved ones the same. I want them to come out the other side.
Love in Nature
I always feel the love nature provides like a dear mother’s embrace. There’s confidence, there’re resonant vibes, there’s strength to recharge me to my very soul. The sun is now going down as I walk along this quiet forest pathway. I love crossing the little bridge over this burbling stream.
A cool evening breeze swept over me as Nature offered me the emotion I was so longing for. LOVE. Yes, love, I have been longing to love. In order to offer the answers to my loved ones, I must be loving. I must be in love with myself first. It’s time to go home. The sky is darkening.
Walking down the street where lovers sometimes hang out, I spy a couple in their armorous embrace. The street lamp made light but also created shadows cast from its beams. It’s obvious they kept within the shadows because they wanted it that way. So that is the second answer. They want, they get!
Let me explain this new elation. You see, in order for me to offer the right direction for my people:
1) I must offer them the Energy of Love. That is, I must be love. Only then will I be in the moment with them with their own answers they seek. This is the part I play in this episode.
2) They must Want what they are looking for. They must Ask what is right for them. Always, it is the anger, the fighting, the he said – she said, the misunderstandings. They must ask the universe or their own loved ones what it is they want out of their relationship. They must Desire the outcome.